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Discussing the importance of intentionally scheduling time with your spouse to strengthen your marriage, introducing the concept of Three Dates Per Month. By designating one breakfast, one lunch, and one dinner date each month, couples can ensure they prioritize their relationship amidst life's demands, fostering connection and anticipation.
Most parents don’t realize they’re giving up a superpower—the power of presence. At my daughter’s gymnastics class, 23 out of 28 parents were glued to their phones. If that’s your default, you’ll blink and miss a decade of your child’s life. This essay isn’t about judgment—it’s a wake-up call. Try putting your phone away. Watch. Listen. Be there. It changes everything.
Highlighting how stages of parenting, both joyous and challenging, come to an end unexpectedly. This realization encourages mindfulness and appreciation of fleeting moments, emphasizing that every aspect of parenthood has a definitive conclusion that should be cherished while it lasts.
Pro-Child Politics by Katy Faust challenges the status quo by centering children in every cultural and political conversation. This powerful collection of essays delves into critical issues like race, gender, education, and the economy, advocating for a child-first approach to policy and societal values. While I don’t align with every perspective, the book offers a profound opportunity to reflect on how we shape the next generation. A must-read for anyone seeking to protect children from ideological extremes and foster a better future.
"Good Inside" by Dr. Becky Kennedy offers invaluable insights and practical guidance for modern-day parents, empowering them to navigate parenting challenges with confidence and empathy. Dr. Becky's ability to break down overwhelming dilemmas into actionable steps, along with her ongoing support through social media and a podcast, makes this book an essential addition for all parents.
Recounting the harrowing experience of a lightning strike igniting a fire in my home. Sharing vital lessons learned about fire safety, the importance of comprehensive insurance coverage, and the resilience required to rebuild and move forward
"Get back to zero" is a life philosophy advocating for completing one task entirely before moving to the next, ensuring each action receives full attention. This approach helps maintain order, alleviates overwhelm, and prepares us for new challenges with a clear space and mind. It's about embracing the moment fully, whether it's cleaning, working, or playing, allowing for a life lived with intention and a sense of calm achievement.
By providing unwavering support, encouraging a growth mindset, and being a constant source of encouragement, parents can help their children develop the resilience and confidence needed to achieve great things
Tiger is alive to be a dad. That is all that matters.
How one could ever spank / smack a child or animal in today's world (2021) is beyond me. You are not your parents. Smarten up. Be better.
