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Reflecting on a deep friendship with Chad, emphasizing that meaningful conversations focused on significant ideas and honesty overshadowed trivial topics like the weather. I try to highlight the importance of genuine connections that enhance personal growth and urge readers to prioritize substantial discussions over small talk, reinforcing that vital conversations require intentionality.
Some of the most powerful leaders you will ever encounter are the ones you barely notice. This essay explores the concept of leading from behind, inspired by a conversation with someone whose wisdom and grace left a lasting impression. It makes the case that true leadership is not about barking orders or taking credit, it is about asking the right questions, creating the conditions for others to discover things on their own, and serving without any need for recognition. Featuring a quietly remarkable story of anonymous generosity, fifty-one years of partnership, and the belief that mentoring the next generation is not optional. It is what we are here for.
History is presented as fact. It is not. It is a collection of theories, interpretations, and narratives shaped by the same flawed, self-interested humans who run the world today. If we can watch governments manipulate the record in real time in 2026, it is naive to think it was any different a thousand or five thousand years ago. This essay argues that dead languages cannot be definitively translated, that archaeological certainty is constantly being revised, and that even events captured on video remain disputed. Intellectual honesty about the past is not cynicism. It is simply the truth.
We live in a world that treats all opinions as equal. They are not. This essay makes the case that expertise matters, that direct experience outweighs uninformed confidence, and that the willingness to ask 'what does this person actually know, and why?' is one of the most underrated habits in modern life. Featuring a hard look at how we evaluate polarizing public figures, and a simple framework for thinking more honestly about whose opinion deserves your attention.
I have been a Tesla owner since 2021 and investor since 2013, and here I argue against common objections to electric vehicles (EVs) based on a decade of experience. I emphasize the safety and efficiency of Teslas over gas vehicles, refuting claims about battery issues and charging times. I invite readers to engage with my AI agent for more insights!
I've been questioning the Apollo narrative for over a decade. I'm done repeating myself. So I built an AI agent trained on my arguments. Tell it why you believe the narrative is true. I look forward to hearing how that goes.
In my 15th year supporting Pelotonia's mission to end cancer, I've raised over $45,000 thanks to generous friends and family, without directly asking for donations. My goal for 2026 is $5,643 in memory of Chad. This cause has become more personal, highlighting the impact of cancer research on patients’ lives.
Discussing the importance of intentionally scheduling time with your spouse to strengthen your marriage, introducing the concept of Three Dates Per Month. By designating one breakfast, one lunch, and one dinner date each month, couples can ensure they prioritize their relationship amidst life's demands, fostering connection and anticipation.
Tesla's Full Self-Driving version 14.3 introduces pothole avoidance and suggests a business opportunity to sell road condition data to municipalities. With significant data on road anomalies from its fleet, Tesla could streamline road repairs, helping cities efficiently allocate maintenance resources. This strategy not only benefits public infrastructure but also boosts Tesla's revenue potential.
Three poems hang on the wall of my office: If by Rudyard Kipling, Desiderata by Max Ehrmann, and Invictus by William Ernest Henley. I have read each of them hundreds of times and I will read each of them hundreds more. Below them on the couch sit my kids' Squishmallows, which somehow makes the whole thing better. This essay is about why these three poems are on my wall, what each one means to me, and why I think you should put them on yours too.
